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Relationship Anarchy and Solo Polyamory
Exploring and explaining the differences between relationship anarchy and solo polyamory.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Jun 26, 20243 min read


Jealousy As A Route To Identifying Your Needs
This post delves into what that jealousy may be masking. What are the feelings under it, and how do those help you identify needs that

Karyn Wittmeyer
Oct 9, 20238 min read


Your Guide to Identifying and Understanding Jealousy
The first in a series on jealousy. Helping you understand what it is, what it isn't, and how to navigate it.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Oct 2, 20238 min read


Understanding Emotional Intimacy: Your Guide to More Fulfilling Relationships
Learning about the different types of intimacy, what emotional intimacy is, and ways to up yours in your relationships.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Sep 4, 20238 min read


Being Asexual In Relationship With An Allosexual
Will opening up help? This is a question we see a lot in the therapy room, especially as more people are becoming familiar with the...

Karyn Wittmeyer
Aug 28, 20237 min read


Best Dating Apps (and places) for Nonmonogamous Relationships
Dating is hard!! It's even more complicated in todays world where so many things are virtual, and many don't understand nonmonogamy.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Aug 21, 20235 min read


Mutuality vs. Autonomy in Nonmonogamous Relationships
Learn what mutuality and autonomy are, the spectrum, and how to find the "sweet spot" where you feel safe, secure, and balanced in yourself.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Aug 14, 20236 min read


Recent Legal Breakthroughs In Nonmonogamous Relationships
Legal protections for nonmonogamous folks varies state by state, and there is a lot of ambiguity around what is possible.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Aug 7, 20236 min read


When Agreements Go Bad
People make agreements in nonmonogamy for many reasons, often it is to help avoid conflict and hurt feelings. Many early agreements fail.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Jul 17, 20238 min read


Polyamory Form Focus: Polyfidelitous Structures and Unicorn Hunting
Unicorn hunting has a really bad reputation in nonmonogamous communities, especially polyamorous ones. There is stigma, and ethical concerns

Karyn Wittmeyer
Jul 10, 20235 min read


The 5 Most Common But Least Useful Agreements In Nonmonogamy
Listing five very common, but very difficult to follow or unhealthy, agreements in nonmonogamy.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Jul 3, 20237 min read


Rules, Agreements, and Boundaries, Oh My!
Rules, agreements, and boundaries are all confusing and often interchanged. Here we help you learn about them, and how to identify yours.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Jun 19, 20237 min read


Polyamory - Common Misconceptions and the Real Truth
There are many myths surrounding polyamory. In this post we try to separate fact from fiction to help dispel stigma, and increase understan

Karyn Wittmeyer
Jun 12, 20236 min read


NRE and Understanding What You Want Out of a Relationship.
Our final installment in the NRE series. Looking at what you want out of your relationship so you can choose how you act.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Jun 5, 20236 min read


Defining Different Terms in Nonmonogamy
So what are all these terms? What do they mean? I'm so confused!!

Karyn Wittmeyer
May 29, 202310 min read


New Relationship Energy and Love - What’s the difference, anyway?
Continuing the NRE series. What is the difference between NRE and Love?

Karyn Wittmeyer
May 22, 20238 min read


Why We Don't Put Ethical or Consensual In Front of Nonmonogamy!
So why don't we use "ethical" or "consensual" on our website? We break that down with examples.

Karyn Wittmeyer
May 15, 20235 min read


New Relationship Energy and Attachment!
Continuing the NRE series. We discuss what attachment is, and how it impacts how we experience NRE!

Karyn Wittmeyer
May 8, 20236 min read


How to Make Sure Your Relationship is "Ethical" and "Consensual"
What do "ethical" and "consensual" actually mean? How do those apply to your behaviors and decisions?

Karyn Wittmeyer
May 1, 20237 min read


What Is New Relationship Energy?
What is New Relationship Energy (NRE)? Why do people talk about it so much? What's there to fear about it?

Karyn Wittmeyer
Apr 24, 20235 min read
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