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Karyn Wittmeyer
Oct 23, 20238 min read
Rules, Agreements, Boundaries, and Limits (redux)
Taking a look back at our post on boundaries, agreements, rules, and limits to continue this ongoing conversation, and build more nuance.


Karyn Wittmeyer
Aug 14, 20236 min read
Mutuality vs. Autonomy in Nonmonogamous Relationships
Learn what mutuality and autonomy are, the spectrum, and how to find the "sweet spot" where you feel safe, secure, and balanced in yourself.


Karyn Wittmeyer
Jul 17, 20238 min read
When Agreements Go Bad
People make agreements in nonmonogamy for many reasons, often it is to help avoid conflict and hurt feelings. Many early agreements fail.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Jul 3, 20237 min read
The 5 Most Common But Least Useful Agreements In Nonmonogamy
Listing five very common, but very difficult to follow or unhealthy, agreements in nonmonogamy.

Karyn Wittmeyer
Jun 19, 20237 min read
Rules, Agreements, and Boundaries, Oh My!
Rules, agreements, and boundaries are all confusing and often interchanged. Here we help you learn about them, and how to identify yours.
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